Everything in the world is extraordinary, and finally it will return to ordinary, and its value will be measured by ordinary life. Greatness, splendor and success are nothing. Only by living an ordinary life well can life be complete.
True maturity is to accept the ordinary life and enjoy it.
Liang Xiaosheng said, "Chinese people are secretly afraid of an ordinary thing, which is the life itself of ordinary people."
The gap between the dream of high light and the reality of plain face is the root of people's pain.
Reality: In this world, 90% of people are ordinary people, 9% have small achievements, and 1% can be noticed.
The leading role is played by a very small number of people, mostly ordinary audiences like you and me.
Zhou Guoping said, "There are three times in life. One is when you discover that you are no longer the center of the world, the other is when you can't do anything no matter how hard you try, and the third is when you accept your own ordinary and enjoy it."
It is also said that the sign of a person's maturity is to accept three ordinary things: parents are ordinary, oneself are ordinary and children are ordinary.
Being able to accept the ordinary is an extraordinary thing in itself.
Du Fu described his later life for us in his poem both sides of the yellow river recaptured by the imperial army: "An old wife draws paper for a chess game, and a young son knocks a needle for a hook." But there are old friends who supply Lumi, and what more can a tiny body ask for? "
The old wife quietly drew a chessboard on the paper, and the young child bent the sewing needle on the stone to make a fishing hook. What can I ask for if my old friends give me some money and rice?
It's hard to imagine that the "Poet Sage", who has a long-standing reputation, has a very ordinary life, rather than a myriad of events.
It turns out that most people live a similar life, go to school, work, get married and have children, and then grow old in daily necessities.
Clever people, with ordinary life to fulfill themselves, let the most ordinary things return one by one, so that disorderly life becomes orderly.
Accept the ordinary, make your life hot, and your life is extraordinary.
A person can be ordinary, but not mediocre.
Some people mistake mediocrity for mediocrity. In fact, these are two concepts.
Mediocrity is lack of ideals and pursuits, self-abandonment and inaction; Ordinary people have a clear understanding of themselves, but they don't give up their efforts, and they are calm about success or failure based on outcome theory.
Ordinary is not terrible, but it is terrible to be willing to be mediocre without experiencing struggle.
Chen Daoming responded sternly: "There are not so many protagonists in the world. Most people may be willing to be lonely and ordinary all their lives. However, don't discourage their efforts. "
Those who are willing to be ordinary, but unwilling to be mediocre, see the truth of life clearly, and still love life are the real heroes.
As Pu Shu's song goes, "I have crossed mountains and seas, and I have also crossed a sea of people. Everything I once owned is gone in smoke in a blink of an eye. I have lost all directions in disappointment, and the only answer is to see the ordinary."
There is a good saying: "No matter how extraordinary a life is, it will eventually be attributed to ordinary daily necessities;" No matter how magnificent there is in life, what we are most obsessed with is always the ordinary trivial warmth and touch wrapped in fireworks. "
True maturity is to accept the ordinary life, understand the world in the complicated world, know all kinds of human feelings, but always treat them with a pure heart, and only be simple and true.